Sometimes we as parents want our children to be a certain way. We want the quiet ones to be more outspoken and confident or the wild and feisty ones to be quieter and more reserved.
But we forget that our child's DNA and temperament plays a big role in how they behave.
If one, or both, of a child’s parents are feisty, then chances are that it will be in their child's DNA. And the same goes for our quieter and more reserved parents. If the parents are like that, then their child will probably be like that too.
As parents we need to learn to accept our child the way they are and guide them to become the best version of themselves, because the world needs all personalities to make it work.
And the truth of the matter is that there is no wrong or right personality. When it comes to our temperaments (or how we approach life), some people just are born outspoken go-getters and others are calm observers.
Let us accept our children and love them no matter what, so that they can walk out of our homes, knowing that they can handle whatever comes their way.
